So you met this wonderful man and now you two are dating. He’s a hot guy and we both have a lot of fun together. We seem to have good chemistry and he seems interested, but when we exchange text messages, I don’t know what the future holds, especially if he’s in love and if he’s thinking about a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. It can be confusing. .
If you want to know how to make a man fall in love with you or how to say “I love you” to your boyfriend without putting too much pressure on him, here are some cute things to say to your boyfriend in a message to let him know. We have a lot. You’ll get to know him more and spend more time with him one-on-one.
Of course, everyone reacts differently to texting, but human nature is human nature, and there are some great approaches that almost universally appeal to men.
Before we get started with specific text message examples, remember that you need to be honest with yourself.
Nothing kills a budding romance faster than false flattery and insincere attention.
In other words, don’t pretend you love sports if you can’t tell the difference between a cupcake, a hockey puck, and a basketball. There is nothing worse than a fake. He’ll spot it a mile away. Trust me, it will circle really quickly and bite you.
So what works for men?
Here are 13 sweet texts that men will fall in love with.
at first…
Everyone loves receiving a sincere compliment from the person they’re dating. So he shares three great messages that are perfect to send while they’re still fresh.
1. “I just wanted to tell you that I had a great time the other night.”
2. āDidnāt I say you look hot in that black T-shirt?ā
3. āI still remember how amazing you looked in that suit!ā
After a few dates…
Most men (and certainly women) want to feel wanted when you trust them and ask for help.
4. āHey, my brother has a problem with his new bike sounding like a diesel truck. Could you please tell me the name of the master?”
5. “Hey, our group is going to (______). If you have some free time, we’d love to have you join us!”
6. āWe are celebrating our 20th anniversary with a picnic next weekend. I would love it if you could be my āplus one.ā ā
7. “I’m going to the dog park with Buffy in a minute. Would you like to catch Yoda and join us?”
8. “Some of us are going out on the trail on Saturday. Shall we meet at the trailhead?”
Inviting him to join you and a group of others, such as a pool party, trivia night at a sports bar, game night with friends, or an event about something you both are interested in, takes the pressure off and makes him feel better. You can relax.
The advantage of this approach is that friends will have the opportunity to check on him in social situations and give valuable feedback on what they observe.
When things start to heat up…
Once you get past the innocent flirting stage, you can move on to subtle messages and let him know you’re fired up.
9. “I just wanted you to know that I’m thinking of you.”
10. “I didn’t get much sleep last night after that kiss. Phew!”
11. “Hi sweetheart. I miss that tight black t-shirt of yours…and your body underneath it.”
12. āI wanted to know that the other night all my friends thought you were hot!ā
13. “By the way, my brother is jealous of your abs!”
Remember: Be honest, keep it real, and don’t bite off more than you can chew.
If you barely know this man, you don’t want to invite him over to your house late at night and find out later on a bad day that he is Quasimodo’s cousin.
Please think carefully about the current state of your relationship.
It’s too much to start talking about love marriages and prams when you’ve only met once or twice. The key is to keep the pressure low.
Now you know some really cool messages to say “I love you” to a man without too much pressure. Pull out your phone and let the party begin!
Susan K. Edwards He is an author, medium, speaker, Reiki master, energy healer, and published author of seven books.